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mosesman  

About mosesman

Please Help us if you can ,My wife has MS and Trigeminal nuraralgia I was barely staying ahead of the bills then my income dropped in half. The pain is getting worse every month she says it feels like her face is on fire! I will do anything you ask for the rest of my life just please help me make her better!!

 

Sign Desperate!!!

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momof5inma  

About momof5inma

I'm a disabled mom of five. Divorced. Three children struggling to get through college. One on her way next year and a daughter with turner syndrom who has 17 doctors at childrens hospital in Boston.

I survive on a thousand a month. That has to pay for everything. My car just broke down and I need a transmission. $2000.00.

 Without a vehicle I loose my independence to even be able to get medication or groceries.

I have no one to help.

 If a kind soul or several people could contribute I would be forever grateful.

Or even if someone could donate a vehicle that runs without needing major repairs.

Any suggestions or help can be forwarded to Vseacoast3@aol.com

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ajtexas  

About ajtexas

I am in desperate need of assistance. My husband and I are a blended family however my 4 children are with us full time. My first husband and father of my children died 4 years ago and left us nothing but a mound of debt. My current husband and I worked very hard to overcome the divorces and his death financially. Just as we finally saw the light at the end of the tunnel I was diagnosed with a large tumor wrapped around my spinal cord two years ago. The surgery was a lot more extensive than expected and the damage it had done was permanant. I've had 14 surgereies since then which has left me disabled and unable to work full time. I had a very successful career and we lived quite comfortably. My company that I worked for ended my employment and benefits without notice or permission. I've struggled to keep our heads above water but with my enormous medical expenses and cost of health insurance has just about killed us. My husband has a really good job, don't get me wrong. But the amount of expenses we have incurred are just far too great for him to handle alone. I finally straightened out my disability which is something else my former employer did not handle correctly. It took my 16 months to get is sorted and paid. But by then we were so far behind it's just a struggle. We are 2 and half months behind on our house payment and if I don't get it paid immediately, we are going to loose our home. We did owner financing as we were in the middle of getting our lives back on track financially. So, this means I don't have the time for them to go through the foreclosure process. Basically they can say get out in less than 30 days. If I could get caught up then we can handle the payments going forward now that I am receiving monthly payments from my LTD insurance. It's just getting caught up that's the problem. My children have been through enough heartache and crisis that I don't want them to loose their home. It's the one stable thing we've had since their dad died. We have an amazing support group of friends around them and I can't take that away from them. If you know of any charity organizations to help us get this caught up. Please let me know.

aj

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never imagined  

Donations Needed

Well, when it rains it pours as the tired saying goes.  I have torn a tendon in my foot and am now forced to wear a cast for the next 4-6 weeks so that it can heal.  I have had to get cortisone shots in my sholder due to bone spurs and osteoarthritis and we may now lose our heath insurance because it is way too expensive for the Cobra payments. 

We also recieved a letter from our morgage company that they will begin foreclosue proceedings if we do not catch up on our payments.  This is horrible, we have been paying  on our home for almost 10 years and we have usually payed more than what was owed each year to pay down the morgage.  Now, a little late and boom!  No help from anyone.   PLEASE IF ANYONE HAS ANY SUGGESTIONS OR DONATIONS.  I hate asking for help.  I was always the one offering the help.  But, I hate to see my husband so down and out.  Without hope is a bad thing.  Thanks for lisening.

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slkarpan  

About slkarpan

Hi, we are a struggling family.  We have 2 boys, 14 and 9.  I am working full time, and my husband has recently lost his job.  He has been suffering with depression for the past 6 years but the past 2 years have just been the worst.  He is currently hospitalized for depression.  We have no insurance since he lost his job.  We are having to move out of our home and find a smaller, cheaper place to rent.  we just got our electric shut off and no way to pay it to have it reconnected.  the bills keep mounting.  the repo man is looking for our vehicle.  we would appreciate any help we can get.  we also believe in pay it forward.  if there is anyone out there who is willing to help us, we promise to pay it forward in any way we can.

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etrusty  

About etrusty

I had to stop working in May of last year to care for my sister who suddenly became really confused, Dr's told me she had alzheimers, she is 73 years old. I had worked with people with alzheimers and never beleived that my sister had it, so I have been  taking her to Drs since then trying to find answers. just recently I found a Dr who sent her for tests and found that she is diabetic, has a hernia which I did know about, she has gall stones and sometime in the past has had a heart attack, I did not know that either. I have to be home with her, she has no one else, and bills are getting high. What I am most worried about is my water heater and furnace both got flooded during our recent floods, and with no money I really do not know what to do, and with my sister being ill I reallt do not know what to do without air this summer.If that wasn't enough my refrigerater also stopped working. I am desperate for help. I just do not know what to do, please help if you can. God Bless you.

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tresacas  

About tresacas

Well, I certainly have never done this before, but at this time I am more than desperate. I am in desperate need of  having to find a way to come up with at least $3000.00 and this has to be in the next day or two. I am currently not able to apply for a loan and I just need this amount to ease the stress in my family and then be able to be back on my feet. I am a single mother and I have been working on my bachelor's degree and only have 6 more classes before I will have completed this degree and then I will be able to make things better, but I desperately need help before then. I can't explain everything in this post right now because it is too personal but trust me it is very serious. I don't know how this works or if it actually works at all. It seems from most of the posts that we are all in the same situation, does anyone really read these posts who are actually able to help? I sure hope so because I am at my last straw, I just don't know where else to turn. I have begged family members, I have asked my church, I am about ready to stand on the street with a cup, that is how desperate I am. Anyway, If there really is a guadian angel out there, I hope you can help.

Theresa Cason

3777 Sugarberry Rd

Hebron, Ky 41048

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ladyhawk08  

About ladyhawk08

HI everyone. I am in a totally desperate situation. I left my job in November 2007 because my 15 year old daughter was in a period of deep depression and was cutting herself. She has been getting help since that time. Also, my husband was hospitalized in Aug. 2007 and I have been unable to put a dime on the copayments. Because I no longer am bringing in my income (42,000.00) a year, the bills are mounting. (My company had no openings in the area I work in, so I had no choice but to quit.) I am about to lose my car, have the utilities cut off and no money for food. My husband makes too much for us to qualify for any assistance. I have been applying everywhere including the unemployment office for work. I truly believe that I needed to be home for my daughter the last couple of months she is doing 100% better. I am unable to get caught up on these payments and cannot utilize my budget plan because we're so far behind. If anyone has any suggestions I would really appreciate it. Thanks and God bless you.
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tsantiago085  

imedite help needed today!!!!!!!09-20-2006

My husband,our 3 kids and myself are going thru some very hard time i am currently unemployed and finding a very hard time finding work and my husband just got a new job thanks to alot of praying being answered! but, he does not get his first paycheck for two weeks. and we are very late on our rent and owe 2,500 that is due today! if there is anyone that can help please contact me at  we recieved an eviction notice on sunday and i contacted some family who said they would help but, due to an out of state family emergency they no longer can and we are desperate.Our landlord has given me there direct bank account to deposit the money but, it has to be today by the time the bank closes. I know 2,500 is a lot of money but, we would be willing to pay it all back with intrest within two to three months.

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